But You Promised

At first, it made me laugh. I literally thought, who writes “But you promised” on the side of a building? But then I sat with it for a second. “But you promised.” There’s something haunting about those words because they’re rarely about the promise itself. They’re about the trust that came with it. The decisions [...]

Saving a Piece of You for You

Somewhere along the way, many of us learn how to become everything for everyone. We become dependable. Responsible. Available. We answer the calls, meet the deadlines, carry the emotional weight, solve the problems, and show up when we're needed. We become so skilled at giving pieces of ourselves away that we rarely stop to ask [...]

Your Favor

How often have you heard the advice, “trust the process” or “everything is working out for you even when it seems like it’s not.” This advice is easy to take when things are going how you want. But it’s a little harder to accept when things don’t pan out as you had hoped or planned. [...]