But You Promised

At first, it made me laugh. I literally thought, who writes “But you promised” on the side of a building? But then I sat with it for a second. “But you promised.” There’s something haunting about those words because they’re rarely about the promise itself. They’re about the trust that came with it. The decisions [...]

Saving a Piece of You for You

Somewhere along the way, many of us learn how to become everything for everyone. We become dependable. Responsible. Available. We answer the calls, meet the deadlines, carry the emotional weight, solve the problems, and show up when we're needed. We become so skilled at giving pieces of ourselves away that we rarely stop to ask [...]

Keeping a Piece of You for Your Peace

Nowadays, life tends to be hectic and stressful. Our schedules are filled with tasks, deadlines, and responsibilities that often leave us feeling overwhelmed and exhausted. It's easy to lose ourselves in the chaos, forgetting to take time for what truly matters, our peace of mind. In this blog post, we'll explore the importance of keeping [...]

Context Matters

Lee Hammock, also known as MentalHealness on social media, uses his platform to educate and advocate for those who have narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) and victims of those who have NPD. On more than one occasion, he has posed this food for thought, "Ask yourself this question. Did you go through things together, or did [...]

Boundaries

Being the bigger person and taking someone's disrespect is 𝗡𝗢𝗧 interchangeable. Being the bigger person means you will hold yourself accountable in conducting yourself with integrity. It is making others clear of your boundaries and then holding yourself accountable in confronting those situations when those boundaries are crossed. It's not your job to make sure [...]